Men often struggle to hide their affairs from their partners due to their limited ability to multitask with their emotions.
When your man starts seeing other women, there will be hints that indicate you are not the only woman in his life. These signs can include changes in his behaviour, such as being more distant or secretive, sudden changes in his schedule or availability, and a decrease in the amount of time he spends with you.
He may also become less interested in your personal life and show less concern for your feelings.
Additionally, you may notice him being more protective of his phone or computer, and he may start receiving more calls or messages that he is hesitant to answer in front of you. These signs below should not be ignored, as they could indicate that he is involved with someone else.
- Increased phone usage: If your man suddenly starts spending an excessive amount of time on his phone, especially if he wasn’t typically attached to it before, this could be a red flag. He might even seek privacy, like spending long periods in the bathroom, to use his phone discreetly.
- Decreased interest in you: If he used to be genuinely interested in your daily life, asking about your day, your plans, and your well-being, but now seems disinterested, it could be a sign that his focus has shifted elsewhere.
- Protective of their gadgets: While some men may let you use their phones without guilt while still engaging in dishonest behaviour, becoming overly protective of their gadgets, especially their phones, suggests he’s trying to hide something from you.
- Emotional distance: Another telltale sign is if he becomes emotionally distant. He may not communicate as openly or share as much as he used to, leaving you feeling disconnected and distant from him.
5. Picking frequent fights: He seems to be constantly picking fights over the slightest issues, and even minor offences lead to prolonged arguments between the two of you.
Even if you try to talk to him about something you are not happy about in a calm manner, they will still get offended and start and turn it into an argument.
These signs may not always indicate an affair, as there could be other reasons for these behaviours. Open and honest communication is the key to addressing your concerns and finding out what might be going on in your relationship.
If you try communicating your concerns and they refuse to open up, maybe it’s time to start your private investigation or consider giving him some space.
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